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So my synchronicities are coming back full force -- amen to that I say. I was reading some CS Lewis because of the reference to him on my show and came across an excerpt from Mere Christianity which made me so happy because -- surprise! -- it's exactly what I needed to read. I'll post it here and I encourage you to read it because it's simply the truth.

And here's some more Peter Gabriel to listen to while you read it. It's coincidentally -- ahem -- apropos.

"There is no fault which makes a man more unpopular, and no fault which we are more unconscious of in ourselves. And the more we
have it ourselves, the more we dislike it in others. The vice I am talking of is Pride or Self-Conceit: and the virtue opposite to it, in Christian morals, is called Humility. You
may remember, when I was talking about sexual morality, I warned you
that the centre of Christian morals did not lie there. Well, now, we have come to the centre. According to Christian teachers, the essential vice, the utmost evil, is Pride.

Unchastity, anger, greed, drunkenness, and all that, are mere fleabites in comparison: it was through Pride that the devil became the devil: Pride leads to every other vice: it is the complete anti-God state of mind. Does this seem to you exaggerated? If so, think it over. I pointed out a moment ago that the more pride one had, the more one disliked pride in others. In fact, if you want to find out how proud you are the easiest way is to ask yourself, 'How much do I dislike it
when other people snub me, or refuse to take any notice of me, or shove their oar in, or patronize me, or show off?' The point is that each person's pride is in competition with every one else's pride. It is because I wanted to be the big noise at the party that I am so annoyed at someone else being the big noise. Two of a trade never agree. Now what you want to get clear is that Pride is essentially competitive - is competitive by its very nature - while the other vices are competitive only, so to speak, by accident. Pride gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next man. We say that people are proud of being rich, or clever,
or good-looking, but they are not. They are proud of being richer, or cleverer, or better-looking than others. If everyone else became equally rich, or clever, or good-looking there would be nothing to be proud about. It is the comparison that makes you proud: the pleasure of being above the rest. Once the element of competition has gone, pride has gone. That is why I say that Pride is essentially competitive in a way the other vices are not. The sexual impulse may
drive two men into competition if they both want the same girl. Butthat is only by accident; they might just as likely have wanted two different girls. But a proud man will take your girl from you, not because he wants her, but just to prove to himself that he is a better man than you. Greed may drive men into competition if there is not enough to go round; but the proud man, even when he has got more than he can possibly want, will try to get still more just to assert his
power. Nearly all those evils in the world which people put down to greed or selfishness are really far more the result of Pride. ...For, of course, power is what Pride really enjoys: there is
nothing makes a man feel so superior to others as being able to move them about like toy soldiers."

--CS Lewis

posted by Lola @ 3:13 PM